8 c. cabbage, finely chopped
1/4 c. carrot, finely chopped
1/2 c. sugar
1/2 tsp. salt
1/8 tsp. pepper
1/4 c. milk
1/2 c. mayo
1/4 c. buttermilk
1 1/2 T. white vinegar
2 1/2 T. lemon juice
Combine all ingredients and chill for at least 2 hours before serving.